By Sue Baldani

We often wait to give gifts on special days, such as birthdays, Christmas, Hanukkah, and/or anniversaries. But, who doesn’t like to receive a little treat “just because”? It can be just because someone is a good friend, or just because we want to let a loved one know how much he or she means to us.

The gift doesn’t have to be large or expensive – as the saying goes, it’s the thought that counts. So, if your sister likes candles, buy her one at the little gift store in town and she’ll think of you every time she lights it. If your best friend loves chocolate, pick up a special bar or box the next time you spot a chocolate shop. When she indulges, she’ll think about what a great friend she has. How about a nice tin of tea for your mom? Again, the gift can be small, but extremely meaningful. Best of all, the recipients will know that you’re thinking about them and listening when they talk about the things that bring them joy.

If you’re not sure what to buy for one of your favorite people, ask a salesperson for help. Small local stores are treasure troves of great advice when it comes to buying the perfect something. If your uncle likes fishing, they may be able to steer you to a box of cookies shaped like fish, or a sign that declares, “I’d rather be fishing.”

Many of our local mom and pop shops are hidden gems full of the most unique and special items. Even if you don’t need to buy something at the moment, it’s fun to walk around, chat with the owners and get ideas. One day, when in need of a gift, something they have might be the perfect thing. Or, someone else may mention needing a particular present, and you can send them to the right place.

Gifting can be all about love and appreciation. It doesn’t have to be congratulatory or obligatory, and it’s more fun to choose items at will. Next time you see a scarf that Aunt Betty might like, pick it up and give it to her right away. There’s no bad time to receive a present.

Written for The Country Register newspapers across the U.S.