A Deep Gratitude for Life

Sharing a harrowing journey to inspire other women facing their own health battles

By Sue Baldani

It was April 2024, and 37-year-old Ann Brennan Williams was a busy lady. A wife, mother of two young children, and owner of Yearly Co., in Tennessee, she didn’t have much downtime. Then, after discovering a lump, a diagnosis of triple-positive breast cancer threatened to upend her whole world.

“When I first heard the word ‘cancer,’ it was from the radiologist who read my mammogram and ultrasound,” she says. “I was in shock and burst into tears. The next few weeks before my official diagnosis were filled with a terrible sense of limbo and fear.”

While Ann was afraid of the physical effects of the treatment she would need, her deepest fear was being taken away from her husband, Pat, and daughters, 9-year-old Regan and 10-year-old Brennan. “I knew that whatever treatments I’d have to face would be hard, but I could handle anything if it meant I’d get to watch my girls grow up.”

And it was hard. Six rounds of chemotherapy left her feeling tired and weak, and she also lost her hair. “I went through a terrible roller coaster of emotions with each cycle,” she says. “I looked for the smallest joys to hold onto when so many things were taken away. There were days when I couldn’t taste food or lacked the energy to do even the most basic tasks.”

She had a tape measure marked with all the days until the end of chemo, and she would cut off one inch each day, watching it get shorter as she neared the end. Her husband and daughters, she says, kept her smiling through it all.

Fortunately, other family members and friends were a great source of support and encouragement too, bringing food and flowers, giving hugs, and sending thoughtful texts and care packages. “We received more DoorDash® gift cards than one person should be able to spend in a lifetime—but they were incredibly helpful when we needed an easy way to feed our girls or when my chemo-altered tastebuds were especially picky,” says Ann. “My friends and family regularly checked in, reminding me they were thinking of me or praying for my healing.”

Her wonderful team at work handled everything there so she could focus on her health and recovery. She also had faith. “My faith helped me let go of control, trust my treatment plan, and believe that whatever happened would be okay,” she says.

Ann also found tremendous strength through other women who had fought the same battle. “When I was first diagnosed, I searched social media for women who had been through breast cancer and had gone on to live life again. Seeing photos of women traveling, working, and returning to their lives after chemo was incredibly encouraging.”

These women inspired her to share her own experience so other women diagnosed with cancer could feel less alone and afraid. “The resources available to connect, share, and learn about what to expect are incredibly helpful,” says Ann. “And as so many women told me, having breast cancer is a terrible club to be in—but it has the best members. You’ll find so much support in this community.”

She also encourages women to do self-checks and follow up on anything unusual. “You’re never too young or too ‘healthy’ to have cancer.”

Today, eight months out of chemo and having healed from her mastectomy, Ann is doing very well. “Every day, I feel a little more like my ‘old self.’ I felt a lot of sadness and anger during treatment, but now I carry a deeper gratitude for my life than I did before.”

@AnnBrennanWilliams

YearlyCo.com

Written for Belle Meade Lifestyle magazine in Tennesee.

Scotch Plains Rescue Volunteer Squad’s 2025 Annual Fund Drive Is Underway

Help Us Continue To Help You, Your Family, and Your Neighbors AT NO COST

The Scotch Plains Volunteer Rescue Squad has mailed its 2025 annual fund drive letter, emphasizing the importance of the service the organization has been providing to local residents for over 88 years. Unlike many other ambulance services, the squad is 100% volunteer. Not one of our over 90 members is paid; we work for pride, not pay, so we NEVER bill for our services.

When one of our ambulances arrives at an emergency, highly trained and certified emergency medical technicians (EMTs) provide an exceptional level of care and compassion. Throughout the year, family members and friends write to thank us for being there when they needed us the most.

The volunteer squad uses 100% of your tax-deductible* donation to fully stock our ambulances with the most innovative equipment. Last year, a new, state-of-the-art ambulance was purchased to continue the tradition of extraordinary service. The organization also holds ongoing training and provides uniforms free to our members.

Please help us get the word out to your family, friends, and even your employers (who will often match contributions) that our fund drive is underway. Those of you who have needed our services in the past know all too well how valuable and necessary the Scotch Plains Volunteer Rescue Squad is to the township.

PLEASE MAIL IN YOUR DONATION TODAY TO THE ADDRESS BELOW OR DONATE ONLINE AT https://swipesimple.com/links/lnk_fb861c9a (https://swipesimple.com/links/lnk_fb861c9a)

The Scotch Plains Volunteer Rescue Squad is also always looking for new members. We need people willing to dedicate time to helping their neighbors. If interested in volunteering, stop by our building to pick up an application or complete one at www.scotchplainsrescuesquad.com. All training is provided free of charge.

Thank you for your continued interest, support, and generosity.

                                                            Sincerely,

                                                               Officers and Members of the

                                                               Scotch Plains Rescue Squad

                                                               PO Box 325, Scotch Plains, NJ 07076

*Information filed with the Attorney General concerning this charitable solicitation may be obtained from the Attorney General of the State of New Jersey by calling (201) 504-6125. Registration with the Attorney General does not imply Endorsement.                      

Get a Clue

A crossword creator who likes playing with words

By Sue Baldani

Doing crossword puzzles is a great way to stimulate brain health, learn new words and have fun. But, do you ever wonder who actually creates these interesting grids?

While many people think they’re computer generated, that’s not the case. Although computers can assist, it takes a skilled person to develop the actual puzzles.

“I’ve been solving crossword puzzles my whole life, but I never thought about who made them,” said Gainesville, Virginia resident, John Kugelman. “I never paid attention to the names on the puzzles, the authors. I guess I just assumed they were computer made.”

When he realized that wasn’t true, he decided to try his hand at creating one of his own. The first one was for his father, a huge crossword puzzle fan, about 10 years ago, but he didn’t actually start creating them on a regular basis until 2022.

Today, his crosswords routinely show up in the New York Times (NYT), the pinnacle of the crossword puzzle world. Even more impressive, he had the most Sunday puzzles published last year, which are larger and more complicated than the rest of the week.

“I currently have had nine published and another seven have been accepted,” he said.

A software developer by day, he has been focused on cyber security for 20 years, and has even worked on submarine defense. Now, in addition to his full-time career, he works on puzzles every night.

So, how do these crosswords actually come together? “There are two different kinds of puzzles – themed and themeless. I like doing themed ones, so for me it always starts with trying to come up with a kind of wordplay. I then jot down a lot of examples because you usually need about half a dozen examples to make a puzzle out of them.”

He related it to telling the same joke over and over again, just in a different way.  “The last puzzle I did was taking the word ‘wheel,’ but starting it off with ‘sq.’ So, wheel of fortune became squeal of fortune. The Great Wall of China turned into the Great Squall of China. I then found ways to clue it.”

That, explained Kugelman, is step one. Step two is building the grid itself and making the words all come together. This is where computer software can help. “It doesn’t do it for you, but it helps to show you the different words that can fit in the letter patterns needed. But, even when you have the software, using it is pretty difficult. You still have to figure out where to put the black squares and where to put the answers. It doesn’t just arrange it for you.”

He is always coming up with ideas, and records them in notebooks, scraps of paper, and on his phone. “I have notes everywhere that you can take notes.”

Just like writers, puzzlers have their own styles. Puzzles can have very visual elements, and Kugelman recalled one in the NYT where the black squares looked like hot air balloons and the answers involved hot air balloon language.

“It was very cool, but that’s not my style,” Kugelman said. “Mine are wordplay heavy. I usually start with some kind of pun or a ‘dad joke’ type of thing. My editor, Will Shortz, likes consistency and wants me to stick to what he’s expecting from me.”

Will Shortz, he explained, is the lead crossword editor at the New York Times and has been there since the mid-90s. “He’s the guy. If there’s anybody in the crossword world that’s famous, it’s him. He’s also on NPR every week and does their puzzle segments.”

Since 2022, Kugelman has created over 50 puzzles, and in addition to having some of them published in the NYT, they’ve also been published in other newspapers. “I have one coming up in the L.A. Times, and then Universal is a syndication thing, so they end up in hundreds of different newspapers. That has been cool because they show up in the Prince William Times and the Fauquier Times, so I can see them in local papers.”

Kugelman, who lives with his two feline roommates, Ginger and Pepper, has always loved putting words together, and before doing crossword puzzles, he wrote song lyrics. He also plays the guitar and a little piano.

“Composing was the main thing I liked doing, but once I tapped into crosswords, I took that same creative energy and put it in a different place.”

He finds creating crossword puzzles very satisfying. “It seems to scratch the same itch, but now I actually get paid for it,” he said.

Written for Haymarket & Gainesville Lifestyle magazine in Virginia.

Living a Life of Wanderlust

How Two Best Friends Turned Their Love of Fashion Into a Full-Time Career

By Sue Baldani

When they met in middle school in Boston, Emily Bache and Abigail Breslin became fast friends who shared a passion for fashion. “We happened to be the same shoe and clothing size, so from the very beginning, we decided to share clothes,” says Breslin. “In order to have a bigger wardrobe, I’d buy the pants, she’d buy the top, and then we’d swap.”

That was 25 years ago. They have since turned their passion into a full-time career, and are known as The Wanderlust Girls. It all started with a blog they began in 2009 during their senior year of college. They were attending different schools – Breslin in Long Island and Breslin in Florida – and wanted to share what they were wearing with each other.

“This was at the very beginning of blogs, and Instagram and Twitter didn’t even exist yet,” says Bache. “I would make a post saying ‘Hey, I bought this dress, this is how I wore it, and you’ll own it too when we reunite.’ Then Abigail would write back, and it was really just going back and forth.”

Someone who saw the blog remarked that other people were following them and they might want to do something more with it. The two already had a plan to move in together and live in New York City after graduation, and having a successful blog would open up opportunities.

“We feel so comfortable together, and we’re so ambitious together, so we were able to really throw ourselves into a city like New York and just figure out a way to be in the world of fashion,” she says. “We saw bloggers starting to go to Fashion Week and we wanted to go too.”

They emailed every single designer who was showing and all of their PR companies to introduce themselves, explain what they like to do and how many views their blog had. “We ended up covering 60 shows our first Fashion Week, which was wild.”

The two best friends started getting hired to write about products, cover events, style lookbooks and campaigns, and provide blog-related activities. “Clients liked the way we dressed and put together looks for our blog,” says Bache. “We then got hired by a big brand and knew we had to form a company.”

In 2011, they founded Wanderlust Fashion LLC. “We were watching this inspirational video, Wonderfully Lost in My Wanderlust, and we thought wanderlust was such a beautiful word,” says Breslin. “At first, we were Lovely Wanderlust, but we didn’t feel like it really aligned with us. As fortune would have it, one of the street style photographers at Fashion Week forgot our name and instead called us The Wanderlust Girls, and we liked that so much better!”

When hired to promote a product or put together a wardrobe, they definitely do things their own way. “We’re very big into storytelling,” she says. “We like themes, and we love to come up with concepts that are fun. We really like to make things a little bit dramatic and that have more heart than just a picture of something on a table. We come up with theatrical ideas that are a bit more unique.”

One day, they were hired by a videographer to do a creative video with beautiful flowing dresses on a rooftop. He asked them to find a designer and pull some pieces. “We ended up turning it into this very dramatic kind of Romeo and Juliet inspired modern day video,” says Bache. “It was really cool.”

The videographer posted the video all over social media. Shortly after, they were out in town when, from across the room, they saw a man looking at them. “He came up to us, and he asked if we were The Wanderlust Girls,” she says.” They quickly realized it was Logan Neitzel, who designed the dress that was used for the video. “He told us he loved the video and wanted to keep in touch and talk.” They did, and Neitzel ended up hiring them to style Macklemore for Saturday Night Live!

“That’s how we get a lot of our jobs – from people noticing us kind of stepping outside of the box and doing something that pushes things a bit or is a little more unique,” says Bache.

While living in New York, the two visited Nashville a couple of times. They ultimately fell in love with the city and decided to move there in 2017. “New York kind of lacked the luster that it had when we first moved there,” says Breslin. “It was a little too corporate and felt like a lot of the artists had left or were pushed out.”

They found their new circle in Nashville. “It seemed like everyone we met was a sculptor, a painter, a musician, or some other type of artist,” says Bache. “We were so excited to be surrounded by these super creative people.”

Today, The Wanderlust Girls have over 20,000 followers on Instagram and more than 50,000 across all social media. They are also writing a book about their experiences.

Over the years, instead of doing what everyone else is doing, they say they’ve really stayed true to themselves and their style. Their fans seem to appreciate that – some of their followers have been with them for 14 years. “People say they feel like they’re friends with us,” says Bache.

TheWanderlustGirls.com

@WanderlustGirls

Written for Franklin Lifestyle magazine in Tennessee.

Achieving the American Dream

From Italy to the United States, a local family continues a legacy of hard work and determination

By Sue Baldani

When Rocco and Maria DiFrancesco emigrated from Italy to America in the 1970s with their two young children, they were seeking a better life filled with opportunities. Through unwavering determination and hard work, they achieved their dream of owning their own business—Park Avenue Shoe Repair, which has since become a beloved local establishment.

“We came from Montazzoli, and we had relatives already living here,” says their daughter, Anna Fabiano, who was just 11 years old at the time. Her brother Joe was only 9. The family arrived with no knowledge of English, but their eagerness to adapt and build a life in America drove them to succeed.

Rocco, a skilled mason, continued working in his trade until an injury forced him to reconsider his career. One day, an acquaintance from their hometown in Italy offered a shoe repair business for sale. Although Rocco and Maria knew nothing about shoe repair or cobbling, they decided to take a leap of faith and purchase the business. “They needed to support their family,” says Anna. “It’s the resilience of immigrants – wanting a better life and being willing to work hard to achieve it.”

The family jumped right into learning the ropes of the new business. They hired a skilled employee to guide them at first, and the local customers helped them learn English. “They learned both the business and the language, and they ran the shop for over 30 years,” says Anna. “The business became the foundation for our family’s future.”

Over the years, Park Avenue Shoe Repair became known for its expertise in shoe and leather repairs, including everything from handbags to UGG boots and sneaker cleaning. While Rocco and Maria truly enjoyed running the business, especially interacting with their loyal customers, by 2007 they were ready for retirement.

Rocco, knowing how vital the shop had become to the community, asked Anna if she would be willing to take over. He didn’t want the shop to close, especially since there were so few shoe repair shops left in town. In the 1970s, Anna recalls, there were three such businesses in town. Now, Park Avenue Shoe Repair is the only one still standing. The trade has dwindled as fewer people are willing to take up the craft of cobbling.

“When my father asked me to take over, I was working full-time, and my husband was preparing for retirement,” says Anna. “But we decided to keep the business alive and carry on the legacy.”

The shop now serves a diverse customer base, ranging from the older generation who prefer to repair shoes for comfort, to younger professionals who want to protect their expensive footwear investment. “We see a lot of customers who buy resale items and want to give them new life,” she says. “They bring in shoes to be stretched, repaired, and/or cleaned.”

Despite the evolving needs of customers, the shop’s core equipment and atmosphere have remained almost unchanged. “Kids come in and are amazed by the machines,” says Anna. “They’ve never seen a shoe repair shop before.”

The shop’s nostalgic charm is a big part of its appeal. “My dad even fixed the floor using old soles from shoes, and it’s still there today. The smell of the leather and the old-time fee – it’s something people love.”

Park Avenue Shoe Repair is a symbol of resilience and community, and Anna and her husband Nick have hopes for it to continue in the family. Their son, Marc, a physical education teacher and wrestling coach at Scotch Plains-Fanwood High School, has expressed an interest in keeping the business alive. “We’re hoping our children will be the next generation to take over and keep it going,” she says.

The sense of pride and satisfaction the family feels is reflected in their customers. “When they come in and say, ‘These shoes look brand new,’ it’s such a good feeling,” says Anna, smiling. “They always walk out happy, and that’s what matters most.”

Park Avenue Shoe Repair is more than just a business – it’s a legacy of hard work, perseverance, and love for the community that has supported it for so many years. With the next generation eager to carry it forward, the future of this cherished institution looks as bright as ever.

NJShoeRepair.com

Written for Scotch Plains Lifestyle magazine in New Jersey.

Pain and Inflammation Relief

A revolutionary product that will change how we treat aches and pains as well as improve our everyday lives and health  

By Sue Baldani

When Dr. Richard Prince, a life sciences executive and Short Hills resident, and esteemed scientist Dr. Joel Friedman, teamed up and founded Vascarta® Inc. in 2020, their goal was to revolutionize the way people deal with pain and inflammation. Today, they are well on their way to meeting that lofty goal.        

How did you two come together?

JF: We were at one time friendly competitors, and right before COVID, we were thinking about creating a company. During COVID, I came up with a safe gel formulation that allows for very high concentrations of hard to dissolve medicines and natural products and for smart drug delivery into the blood following topical application.

This led to the establishment of our new company that we named Vascarta. Richard has this amazing sense of what’s needed to bring new compounds to market in an efficient manner.

How does this new formulation ease pain and inflammation?

JF: Inflammation activates pain generating nerves. Curcumin was selected as our first therapeutic compound given its well-established safety profile and promise as an analgesic and anti-inflammatory agent. Our first product was produced by combining curcumin with our patented gel drug delivery technology. The results were dramatic.

RP: Curcumin is a spice derived from turmeric. It’s widely used around the world for many different ailments. The United States FDA recognizes curcumin as a safe compound.

JF: Curcumin has been very well studied and has shown great therapeutic promise. However, oral curcumin has only minimal therapeutic efficacy even at very high doses. Our transdermal delivery approach overcomes the many limitations associated with oral curcumin. Whereas oral curcumin requires extended treatment over weeks and still only yields modest benefits, our product can generate detectable results literally within minutes of topical or sublingual [under the tongue] application. Normalization of elevated blood pressure, as well as pain reduction, occur very shortly after topical application. These effects are not seen with oral curcumin.

What conditions can it treat?

JF: The many painful joint ailments such as osteoarthritis and sciatica that plague and limit the elderly are prime targets for this product, especially because of the significant limitations on NSAID use in older pain sufferers.

Based on our dramatic and just published preclinical results, we are also pursuing treatment of chronic and acute pain in sickle cell patients.

We also have results indicating that our product may prove effective in relieving many of the consequences of aging.

Tell me about the Topi-CLICK applicator.

RP: With just a little twist of the applicator, you will hear an audible click, which will release a defined dose of the product which is then put on your skin in the desired place and gently rubbed in with the tip of the applicator. Alternatively, the dose can be applied directly under your tongue.

It’s available with a doctor’s prescription, correct?

RP: Yes, it’s currently being prescribed by doctors in 22 states from Town & Country Compounding Pharmacy (Ramsey, New Jersey).

What is the name of the product?

RP: Until it’s approved by the FDA, all we can say at present is that our curcumin transdermal product is available. To learn more about it, people can contact Town & Country Compounding Pharmacy. 

What has the feedback been?

JF: We have reports showing that within two hours, knee pain was gone and normal activity, including sports, resumed. We have also had reports of enhanced athletic performance.

I, myself, was starting to get horrible sciatica, and I rubbed it on my lower back and overnight the pain was gone. We had another case of somebody who had a motorcycle accident and his knee swelled up and was agonizingly painful. After he applied our product, the swelling went down and the pain was gone.

Multiple users report substantial and sustained drops in elevated blood pressure back into the ideal range as well.

What is your top goal?

RP: We have worldwide exclusive rights to this life-changing product, and Vascarta is actively working to one day make this curcumin product globally available. The world is really clamoring for non-opioid or non-habit-forming analgesics as well as safe anti-inflammatories without major side effects.

Is there anything else you would like to mention?

RP: Vascarta is a local company with a strong and experienced management team. We have embarked upon something with significant potential to make a positive impact in the practice of medicine. We’re so excited about the future. Interested parties can contact me to learn more about how Vascarta is “Moving Medicine Forward, Smartly.”   

Written for Chatham & Short Hills Lifestyle magazine in New Jersey.

A Beautiful Place to Perch

Experience a unique place to shop, eat, and celebrate

By Sue Baldani

In 2006, Michele Bessey used her creativity to turn a small space in a Maplewood building into a showcase for unique gifts. “A store didn’t even exist in that building,” she says. “It was just apartments, but I had seen the possibility there. I called it Perch Home because it was perched up on the corner.”

She loved being a part of the community and developing relationships with her customers. But, in 2023, she unexpectedly lost her lease. “I thought I could either retire or I could create the best version that I ever imagined for my store.”

Michele chose the latter, and took over the space of a former Indian restaurant that was right across the street. It was just a big, empty, dark black box, but it was the only place in town that had an outdoor patio area. Michele’s mind churned with possibilities. Six months later, the new and improved Perch Home opened its doors.

“We installed a big window so all this light came in and expanded our store upstairs,” she says. “It was a labor of love.”

In addition to curated gifts, this space allowed her to offer so much more. “My big thing is experiential retail,” she says. “I want to make customers feel like you do when you’re on vacation and you discover that cool shop.”

She added a café where everything is made by an in-house chef. Brunch is served Wednesday through Sunday, and menu items includes a Peaches and Cream Parfait, Farmer’s Omelet, Chicken Salad Croissant, and Café Crème Pancakes. For lunch, customers can enjoy a fresh salad with Buttermilk Biscuits slathered with house-made jams and honey butter. Children love the French Toast Sticks and Animal Toast.

The coffer bar is also a huge hit. “We serve Kobrick coffee which is roasted in Jersey City. We try to incorporate some of the things we sell in the kitchen area into our food, like the olive oil and honey, plus tea and coffee.” There’s also mocktails and creamy gelato available.

On that once empty patio now sits a lovely garden area. A vintage camper bar is available to serve non-alcoholic drinks, and private parties can be held there, or in the café or upstairs flex space.

“It’s so great because now I can celebrate with my customers all the way through,” says Michele. “They can come in, buy a baby gift, and also have their baby shower with us.” Perch is known for beautiful gift wrapping too.

There’s also now plenty of room for her corporate gifting business, which is geared towards supporting other small, local businesses. “Our whole thing is meaningful gift giving,” she says. “If we get an order for 5,000 gift boxes, ordering one item from one vendor can change that business dramatically. We include the vendor’s story in the box as well.”

Michele and her assistant manager, Mackenzie Troncone, choose each item in the store with care. “The two of us have a rule that if we both don’t say yes, we don’t get it. It has to be ‘perchy.’”

They are definitely doing everything right. Perch Home recently won the 2025 Retailer Excellence Award (REA) for Best Store Redesign. “It was amazing to be recognized by others in the industry,” she says. “It made me feel good.”

Written for Vicinity Magazine in New Jersey.

Honoring a Home Town Hero

Recognizing a veteran for his dedication to his country

By Sue Baldani

On Saturday, December 14, 2024, the Scotch Plains community gathered to honor one of its own, Harry T. Ramsey, during a Wreaths Across America event at the Scotch Plains Baptist Church on Park Avenue. Joe McCourt, a U.S. Army Veteran of the Vietnam War, served as master of ceremonies.

PFC Ramsey, a Unites States Army veteran of World War II and Purple Heart recipient, made the ultimate sacrifice for his country in Normandy, France, on July 29, 1944. In recognition of his service, Warren Street, where PFC Ramsey once lived, will now also be known as Harry T. Ramsey Lane. Signs have been placed on Warren Street at the intersections of Coles Avenue and Rose Street. His name will also be added to the War Memorial in the center of town.

This recognition began with the dogged research of Westfield resident, Brian Mueller. In 2020, he watched a 1964 documentary marking the 20th anniversary of D-Day, and as General Eisenhower and Walter Cronkite walked through the rows of graves at the American Cemetery in Normandy, Cronkite read some of the names of the soldiers buried there. One of those names was Harry Ramsey from New Jersey.

“That’s what started the whole thing,” says Brian. “I started digging, talked to his nephew Tom [Ramsey], and confirmed that that was his uncle. I ultimately found he was from Scotch Plains.”

He also went to the War Memorial in the center of town but didn’t see Ramsey’s name. He set out to rectify this situation and make sure the veteran was recognized for his service.

It took about four years to gather all the records, and Brian never realized his research would culminate in a such an honor to Ramsey. “I’m happy to see this happen, and I’m also happy that it’s during the 80th anniversary of D-Day.”

Even though Brian isn’t a veteran, he’s a treasurer of the Association of the United States Army that supports Army veterans, soldiers that are deployed, and their families.

“I was just shocked when Brian contacted me,” says Tom, who drove up from Atlanta for the event. “I knew about the Walter Cronkite/General Eisenhower documentary because I watched it with my dad as a child.” They were both surprised when Harry’s name was mentioned. 

“When Brian told me what he was trying to do, I offered to help in any way I could. I had some genealogy records, but not a lot.”

Tom’s father, John, was also a veteran and he and his brother Harry enlisted when they were in their 30s. “They were over there serving because they wanted to.”

While in town, Tom had the opportunity to go by and look at the house on Warren Street. “I can picture my dad in that house,” he says.

“I like what Mr. McCourt said at the end of his speech,” says Ernie Hernandez, a member of the Veterans Advisory Board in town, which was instrumental in providing this recognition. “When you place a wreath on a veteran’s tombstone, say his name aloud. Because, when you say their names aloud, you keep them alive, you remember their sacrifice.”

So, next time you’re driving around town, visit these signs and take a moment to remember.

[Caption above – Tom Ramsey and Brian Mueller]

Written for Scotch Plains Lifestyle magazine in New Jersey.

Red Hot Show!

Meet a drummer who translates his musical talent onto canvas

By Sue Baldani

Most people know Chad Smith as the drummer with the multi-Grammy award-winning band and Rock & Roll Hall of Fame inductee Red Hot Chili Peppers. But, his range as an artist extends way beyond music to paintings dubbed “rhythmic expressionism.”

“His artwork is a direct visual translation of his drumming process to canvas,” says Wentworth Gallery director, Maryanne Fralinger. By working with a company that takes digital photographs of musicians playing with neon-colored instruments – in his case, drumsticks – in a dark room, Smith was able to capture the waves of motion of his drumsticks. “He selects the colors of the drumsticks, the song, the speed and the intensity that he wants. As he’s drumming, swirls of color are created that really convey his emotions right onto the image.”

Once these images were created, he transferred them to canvas and incorporated his own unique stamp. “He added in acrylic paint to intensify them and broaden the colors and went with bright, explosive, bold combinations,” she says. “He felt that that would really communicate the actual power of the drumming and the sound and the music to more authentically show who he is as a drummer and as a visual artist.”

Wentworth Gallery has represented many musical artists over the years including drummer Rick Allen from Def Leppard, legendary solo guitarist Joe Satriani, and Paul Stanley, the lead singer of Kiss. “We really focus on trying to make that personal connection by bringing the artists into our different locations so it’s not just about buying a piece to decorate your home, but instead it’s a whole experience of meeting and learning about that artist and making them a personal part of your life,” says Maryanne.

They’re excited to host a show of Smith’s artwork in their Short Hills location on March 1,
where collector’s acquiring artwork can meet him, discuss his extraordinary creations, and be photographed with him and their new art!

People come from all over to attend these artists’ meets and if for some reason they can’t make it, Wentworth can ship any piece to one of their five locations in the United States or anywhere else in the country. They can also ship around the world.

Of course, the gallery represents many other artists as well. “People can walk in every day and see something new with our constantly changing collection,” she says.

To meet Chad Smith or one of your other favorite artists, check out the gallery’s list of upcoming events online and also view their wide array of artwork.

WentworthGallery.com/ChadSmith.html

[More about Chad Smith]

In addition to being the renowned drummer for the Red Hot Chili Peppers, Chad Smith has worked with an extraordinary assortment of artists including Ozzy Osbourne, Johnny Cash, Eddie Vedder, Kid Rock, Joe Satriani, and Post Malone. Now, he’s also a visual artist who wants to portray the emotion, fluidity and intensity he experiences while drumming.

Smith also loves sharing his passion for music and art with others, especially young people. He’s lobbied to make sure arts and music programs stay in schools because he believes that kids don’t necessarily know what their skills are until they’re given the opportunities to find out. Without these programs, he feels that the world may miss out on future amazing and talented artists.

Written for Chatham & Short Hills Lifestyle magazine in NJ.

Smart Memory Moves

A focus on prevention, early-detection and treatment of dementia

By Sue Baldani

Dementia is a general term that refers to a group of illnesses affecting memory, thinking, or speaking. Historically, dementia was viewed as a disease of old people. However, now it is increasingly seen in younger people. Early-onset dementia is defined as the onset of symptoms prior to age 65.


Fortunately, diagnoses and treatments have dramatically improved, and while the disease cannot be cured, its progress can be slowed. “Once someone is diagnosed, we don’t wait,” says Galina Shenfeld, executive director and founder of the Memory Center. “There are things that should be done right away.”


Galina has a personal stake in staying on top of the latest research – her husband was diagnosed with dementia in 2019 and is successfully being treated in the center with revolutionary therapies.  


“We have a plethora of things we can do and we have incredible diagnostic cognitive tests. We also do specific blood work for genetic predisposition and signs of dementia. Health issues like diabetes, high blood pressure, Lyme disease, and gingivitis increase one’s chance of dementia. We now know that the best treatment is prevention or early detection.”


Two-thirds of patients with Alzheimer’s are post-menopausal women, she says, so it’s important to improve their quality of sleep as well as their diets, and control weight and optimize medications, if needed.


The Memory Center is a multi-specialty clinic composed of an internist, neurologist, psychiatrist and staff trained in neurological and psychological testing. “Utilizing the latest medical technology, we’re seeing incredibly positive results,” says Galina.

401 S. Van Brunt St, Ste 302

Englewood, NJ, 07631

(201) 947-4777

MemoryCenter.org

Written for Suburban Essex Magazine in NJ.